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Clair Miller | LPC

There is hope and healing; even when it might not feel like it. 

Maybe your anxiety is becoming too difficult to manage, or your relationships aren’t working. You might feel lost or stuck, or like you can’t move beyond that one thing from your past that keeps bubbling up. Whatever you’re struggling with at this moment (and we all have something!) I’m glad you’ve found your way here. 

The unfortunate reality is that life is hard. Nobody makes it through unscathed, and when you have experienced trauma the potential for healing can feel impossible. Even though trauma is pretty widely experienced, it can feel incredibly isolating. The effects of trauma are real, complex, and often intense. If you’re facing them by yourself it can be easy to get stuck with no clear path forward. 

Most of my trauma experience has been with individuals who have been through interpersonal trauma, like abuse or a sexual assault. Looking for a therapist is a challenge for most people, but when you have a history of interpersonal trauma it can be significantly tougher. Choosing to reach out to someone is a scary and brave choice, and working from a trauma-informed approach I am both committed to honoring that and partnering with you in a way that feels safe and intentional.

I also work closely with parents and children; just being a kid or a teen in today’s world can be scary. Navigating family life, school responsibilities, extra-curricular activities, social relationships, personal growth and development… that’s a lot of work by anyone’s standards! As children live out their formative years, they may encounter something that feels too difficult. They may not know what it is, or they may not be able to name it, but there are often deeper issues hidden behind behaviors. 

From a primarily person-centered and psychodynamic approach, you and I will work together to reach a place of healing. Within the context of a safe, consistent, and trusting relationship, we will explore your challenges, your values, and your goals as you take steps towards wellness. I have experience working with children, teens, and adults dealing with everything from anxiety and relationship issues to trauma and sexual abuse. No matter what you’re carrying, it would be a privilege to walk with you towards healing, tailoring the counseling process to best fit your needs.

 

Clair’s Areas of Specialty & Background

Trauma Recovery & Abuse

Sexual Abuse Recovery

Tough Life Transitions

Anxiety & Depression

Sexuality

New or Mature Relationships

Children & Play Therapy

Academic Background

MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Wheaton College Graduate School, Wheaton, IL

BS Psychology, BS Sociology, College of Charleston, Charleston, SC

Testimonials

“I’m very thankful for the time I got to work with Clair. She understood where I was coming from and cared about me, and helped me deal with the darker stuff in my past.”

“Clair helped me cope with my anxiety, and opened my eyes to root issues that I wasn’t aware of. I feel like I can better focus on my work, and I know what to do when I start to feel the anxiety creeping in.”

“We are seeing changes in our daughter’s behavior here at home, and she looks forward to going to school and therapy! She has the tools she needs.”

“I was nervous about seeing a counselor, but it ended up being very helpful. Clair provided great insight but also challenged me, and worked with me through the difficult aspects of my relationship.”

Articles by Clair

Emotions and Your Brain

Emotions and Your Brain

Our brains are incredibly complex. That’s probably not news to you, but even in sitting down to write this blog, I’m struck again by just how intricate the structures and functions of the brain are. So much is happening up there! Dr. Daniel J. Siegel (M.D.) and Dr....

Disorganized Attachment

Disorganized Attachment

Of all of the attachment styles, disorganized is the least common, and as such I’d say, the least researched. In my last few blogs, I have taken a closer look at the secure attachment style and two of the three insecure attachment styles (anxious and avoidant)....